Two Choices:
What would you do?….you make thechoice.
Don’t look for a punch line, there isn’t one.
Read it anyway.
My question is: Would you have
made the same choice?
At a fundraising dinner for aschool that serves children with
learning disabilities, the father of
one of the students delivered a
speech that would never be
forgotten by all who attended.
After extolling the school and its
Dedicated staff, he offered a
question:
‘When not interfered with by
outside influences, everything
nature does, is done with
perfection..
Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn
things as other children do. He
cannot understand things as other
children do.
Where is the natural order of
things in my son?’
The audience was stilled by the
query.
The father continued.. ‘I believe
that when a child like Shay, who
was mentally and physically
disabled comes into the world, an
opportunity to realize true
human nature presents itself, and
it comes in the way other people
treat that child.’
Then he told the following story:
Shay and I had walked past a park
where some boys Shay knew were
playing baseball.
Shay asked, ‘Do you think they’ll let
me play?’
I knew that most of the boys would
not want someone like Shay on
their team, but as a fatherI also
understood that if my son were
allowed to play, it would give
him a much-needed sense of
belonging and some confidence to
be accepted by others in spite of his
handicaps.
I approached one of the boys on the
field and asked (not expecting much)
if Shay could play.
The boy looked around for
guidance and said, ‘We’re losing by
six runs and the game is in the
eighth inning. I guess he can be on
our team and we’ll try to put him in
to bat in the ninth inning.’
Shay struggled over to the team’s
bench and, with a broad smile, put
on a team shirt. I watched with a
small tear in my eye and warmth in
my heart. The boys saw my joy at
my son being accepted.
In the bottom of the eighth inning,
Shay’s team scored a few runs but
was still behind by three.
In the top of the ninth inning, Shay
put on a glove and played in the
right field. Even though no hits
came his way, he was obviously
ecstatic just to be in the game
and on the field, grinning from ear
to ear as I waved to him from the stands.
In the bottom of the ninth inning,
Shay’s team scored again.
Now, with two outs and the bases
loaded, the potential winning run
was on base and Shay was
scheduled to be next at bat.
At this juncture, do they let Shay
bat and give away their chance to
win the game?
Surprisingly, Shay was given the
bat. Everyone knew that a hit was
all but impossible because Shay
didn’t even know how to hold the
bat properly, much less connect
with the ball.
However, as Shay stepped up to the
Plate, the pitcher, recognizing that
the other team was putting winning
aside for this moment in Shay’s life,
moved in a few steps to lob the ball
in softly so Shay could at least
make contact.
The first pitch came and Shay
swung clumsily and missed.
The pitcher again took a few steps
forward to toss the ball softly
towards Shay.
As the pitch came in, Shay swung at
the ball and hit a slow ground ball
right back to the pitcher.
The game would now be over.
The pitcher picked up the soft
grounder and could have easily
thrown the ball to the first
baseman.
Shay would have been out and that
would have been the end of the
game.
Instead, the pitcher threw the ball
right over the first baseman’s head,
out of reach of all team mates.
Everyone from the stands and both
teams started yelling, ‘Shay, run to
first! Run to first!’
Never in his life had Shay ever run
that far, but he made it to first base.
He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.
Everyone yelled, ‘Run to second,
run to second!’
Catching his breath, Shay
awkwardly ran towards second,
gleaming and struggling to
make it to the base.
By the time Shay rounded towards
second base, the right fielder had
the ball . The smallest guy on their
team who now had his first chance
to be the hero for his team.
He could have thrown the ball to
the second-baseman for the tag, but
he understood the pitcher’s
intentions so he, too, intentionally
threw the ball high and far
over the third-baseman’s head.
Shay ran toward third base
deliriously as the runners
ahead of him circled the bases
toward home.
All were screaming, ‘Shay, Shay,
Shay, all the Way Shay’
Shay reached third base because
the opposing shortstop ran to help
him by turning him in the direction
of third base, and shouted, ‘Run to
third! Shay, run to third!’
As Shay rounded third, the boys
from both teams, and the
spectators, were on their feet
screaming, ‘Shay, run home! Run
home!’
Shay ran to home, stepped on the
plate, and was cheered as the hero
who hit the grand slam and won
the game for his team
‘That day’, said the father softly
with tears now rolling down his
face, ‘the boys from both teams
helped bring a piece of true love
and humanity into this world’.
Shay didn’t make it to another
summer.
He died that winter, having
never forgotten being the hero and
making me so happy, and coming
home and seeing his Mother
tearfully embrace her little hero
of the day!
AND NOW A LITTLE FOOT NOTE
TO THIS STORY:
We all send thousands of jokes
through the e-mail without a
second thought, but when it comes
to sending messages about life
choices, people hesitate.
The crude, vulgar, and often
obscene pass freely through
cyberspace, but public discussion
about decency is too often
suppressed in our schools and
workplaces.
If you’re thinking about forwarding
this message, chances are that
you’re probably sorting out the
people in your address book who
aren’t the ‘appropriate’ ones to
receive this type of message
Well, the person who sent you this
believes that we all can make a
difference.
We all have thousands of
opportunities every single
day to help realize the ‘natural
order of things.’
So many seemingly trivial
interactions between two
people present us with a choice:
Do we pass along a little spark of
love and humanity
or do we pass up those
opportunities and leave the
world a little bit colder in the
process?
A wise man once said every society
is judged by how it treats it’s least
fortunate amongst them.
You now have two choices:
1. Delete
2. Forward
May your day, be a Shay
Day



